I'm just about to order the "repair kit for starter" part number 035911320A (part 13 on diagram)

I've just repaired my starter as the plastic housing for the planetary gears had broken, how do i refit part 13 so part 14 doesnt come apart?
sorryno one has posted here yet,,i gotta say myself,ive never had one of these opened up yet,,i gotta do a brush plate in one soon but that looks easy, :?:
I need to buy the wish bone shaped conector that conects the soileniod to the engagement gear. does anyone know where I can buy it in the states? I'm in north fl.