By the sounds of it your saying your not sure exactly how to retime the engine? I may have interperated that wrong but ill post anyways

First off, do the easiest thing to do, lock the pump, rotate the pump around till the smallest hole is at about 2:30? ish. youll see the hole behind it that your 7/16" 1/4"drive socket will slide (forcefully) into. What that is doing is locking your pump so you dont have to worry about it
Second make sure your flywheel TCD mark is 100% spot on.
100% spot onThird make sure you Cam is also in the TDC? location. Best (or the cheapest) way to do this is put a standard 3" door hinge in the slot at the opposite end of the Cam. Now here is where you have to be carfull. You could easily put the cam 180 degrees out of TDC, you want it at the position where the lobes of the CYL. 1 are both pointing outwards, and the lifter has no pressure on it.
Once everything is locked into place carfully place the timing belt back on. I personally put it on the crank first, but that could be wrong in some people opinion. Its nice to have a buddy with you watching the TDC mark on the flywheel to tell you if you move it or not.
Most important thing to do is check the flywheel after you timing belt is on to make sure that you are 100% on TDC. After you have made sure you are 100% correct I like to turn the engine over with a ratchet a few rotations just to make sure. If something is going to bind up its always better to find out that way.
Even though you tried to start it with the timing waaaay out the chances are the engine is still in perfectly fine condition. My crank sprocket has slipped on me 2 times, (I have since upgraded to a TDI sprocket) but both times the valves were just fine.
Once it runs youll know if your valves are dinked or not.
If you already knew all this then forget I posted it, but hopefully it will help someone else