HEY! actually i found something out quite humorously.
I was with two friends (RadoTD did make an appearance briefly but these two are other friends

he has his fancy gauges now and i have my magnet RPM thing...)
and one of them says, "hey Ed... why are there no tunes?"
I point to the lack of a battery.
"oh..." he says
after that i fetch the jumper cables & battery and connect the wires that go into the dash and my amp wire to the RED and i clip the BLACK lead to where i DID have my ground going to on the body...
no power at the deck.
thats odd... i think... i jimmy them around a bit and some sparks fly and i get "continuity" which was more like a spray of sparks.
what i was using for a ground was structural but where i couldn't see it has become all corroded.
So i take my second ground that grounds to the transmission mount bolt.
That one grounds for the starter, because the car was previously starting, but NOT my stereo!!! So, me thinks the mounts to the body are either rusty or too dirty to be useful grounds to dash stuff or some combination of the two or too many things trying to ground through something too small?... i hopefully have found the solution to my electrical problems.
now for internal pictures... which i must say i am quite pleased about.
SUPER big imprints from the bigger valves on the piston that let go. The rings had gone BELOW the cylinder lining and it was stuck in that position. I need to remove the crank to get it out. I didn't clean ANYTHING by the way... that piston head is exactly as it was...

Here is the head as it came off. no cleaning anywhere has been done in ANY of these pictures.

here are the piston heads from left to right




I cleaned the head up and it looks fine except on the piston that hit the head you can see very definite ... burn? marks where the combustion chamber is ... its odd. Look for it in the second picture.
It's as if ... this piston let go but it also was burning very strangely. coincidence?