Okay, I've been bouncing these ideas around for a long time, since I was dealing with american gasser stuff.
I've read that this turbo and that turbo are too small, and this turbo and that turbo are too big, etc.
Some have mentioned using the holset hx/hy35 but that they are difficult to spool on any but the biggest, wildest TDs. In the past, I knew of a few of these that were used on gasser engines, and one example seems particularly suited to this discussion. The vehicle was a 4.0l gasoline explorer, and the hx35 was found to perform alright, but wouldn't spool until almost 3000 rpm, and would only make 5ish psi, if memory serves. So the owner blocked off one side of the split turbine housing, and forced all exhaust into the other side. Viola! Spool was 1700, boost was wastegate limited around 12psi. (those of you who know them will wonder, as I did, how long a 4.0l ford will last at 12psi, but... his truck, his choice.) His idea was to rig an external wastegate to dump exhaust from the primary (open) side of the split housing to the secondary side once it was spooled, but I lost touch with him before he did so. I haven't looked at the maps for an hx in a while, but I can't help but wonder if that would perhaps be applicable in our world of VW's. I've a few things to do before it gets time to put a bigger turbo on mine, headgasket, injectors, ip, exhaust, and cleanup, but if noone tries it before then, I probably will since I currently have the hx35 with the smallest exhaust housing in my hands. For now I'm focused on stopping and steering, then comes speeding up.