...BTW your Bieber avatar is awesome.-Malone
It really sounds like you have some glowplugs burnt out. Check them all and report back. If they are all good, then do a voltage drop test. Actually you may as well do a voltage drop test anyways...Lots of people are lazy and only replace the 2 that are easiest to get to. So checking those 2 is almost pointless if you aren't checking the other 2
Out of curiousity, why does over-torquing them cause them to burn out? Do they contact the other side of the camber?