It first started on the M40 heading south. I lost acceleration and could not keep the speed up (loss of power), I pulled over to the hard shoulder, car was still running. So sat there thinking wtf happened, as I'm new to the GTD I wouldn't have any ideas on what to look for, so I started on my way again (strangely there was acceleration), there was still not as much power as normal though. This happened again, I pulled over to the hard shoulder I switched the car off, took a few DEEP breathes as I had the missus saying WTF's happening and making me more stressed, told her to shut it, took a few more breathes, started car again and carried on our way with lack of power.
We eventually got to the A34 and had the same problem not long after joining it. I pulled over to the hard shoulder (or lack of) and the car cut out when I tried pulling away again, so told the missus to take the kiddie up the path and to get away from the road. I tried starting it, but it only tried to turn over and couldn't start up. At that point not know anything about how diesels operate I thought to call the rescue services and get my family and the car recovered to home.
Yesterday I went out to the car and got it started by turning the key 1 click a few times then all the way where it struggled to start but it did, then it died 5 seconds later.
When I turn the key 1 click, I have two audible clicks from the engine bay.
The some of fuel lines are dirty and browny/orange so I can't tell if there is fuel in them as diesel is clear.
Suggestions on where to start looking please.
I called a local MK1 Golf specialist and he said it could be the fuel cut off solenoid, but they can't do anything until tomorrow as their mechanic is on holiday

however they do have a GTD in their yard we can swap parts out from to find the faulty component.