Hi Klang,
always nice to see someone working with the M21 engine and your scandinavian guys are the most crazy ones.
You are right there is no ARP stud set for the M21 engine, i have to look wich one i have used. From what i remeber, there where for audi 5 cylinder gasser engine or so, i have had a dealer you boughts to sets of the bolts and makes one 6 cylinder set for me and one 4 cylinder set for his shop. I can ask him for another set if you wand.
You are also right, that there is no stock mls headgasket for the m21, i have send my old gasket as master to John from "gasket-to-go" in Thailand and he makes a mls gasket for me. The first one was quite expensive because shipping from germany to thailand cost 75€, but once this was done in the past, you could send John a message via skype and say that you want a mls gasket for the bmw m21 engine and which thickness you would like. As i remeber right one gasket should cost something around 250 US$ with 2mm thickness.
As update i would make additional "steam holes" in the block and head and therefore also in gasket, as the actual tdi engines have.
I have allready spoken with John about that, but have not send him a picture with the dimension, so the technical thing is not fully clarifield.
By the side, i would love to have my block regrinded as yours is, this will help you many to seal the head. I go up to full 6000 rpm with my actual setup but shedule to go ahead a bit higher with my new pump. I would recommend to install a egt measuremt and not going much higher than 1000°C, which is my issue in the moment at high rpms, because my first pump is not modifield enough.
Just to make sure that we do not misunderstand us, i can only build mechanical pumps, if you wand to go ahead with a electronic pump it could not help you. As i am not a professionel it will not take as much for me, for building a pump, but is is difficult to find a good 12mm hd-section.
Here some vids and pictures from my old bimmer:
BMW E28 524TD --- KreisfahrtBMW E28 524TD --- 60km/h - 170km/hBMW E28 524TD --- 0 - 100km/hported head:
ARP bolts
mls gasket:
special intake
dyno
Regarding the pump please send pm, if you shedule with a mechanical pump design