Well I just did a search for 1.9 gasket and found this thread. No has yet to mention cavitation around the blades of the water pump as a reason. I have a similar trouble in that I can't driver the engine too hard or it will get too hot. I was thinking it is a head gasket issue... only leaking when the engine get really hot. It could still be a head issue but the cause of over heating could be elsewhere.How about slowing the water pump (larger pulley) and adding a oil cooler?