ok i have to leave in 3 hours and am going to sleep.
long story short i found a thread where somebody mentioned top oil pump bushing spinning choking oil flow so i broke things down.
everything was tight, bushing was orientated correctly, i popped it out even and compared to another turbo block.
put bushing from other turbo block in for the hell of it, put another 36mm oil pump that i got from a member here in after cleaning all passages/mating surfaces.
spun with a drill to prime, within a few seconds drag and cavity filled with oil, oil trying to shoot up from center.
put best rotary pump on and held lid on loose and within a few seconds of cranking engine the whole middle pooled over with oil.
im very confused as to what happened. but now that i think back inbtween tinkering and having that vacuum pump lid off there has probably been no oil this whole time with that other pump install in the engine. too many times i had it off and not a hint of oil pooled up.
i put that out of my mind, blindly looking at my manual oil gage at the head? things seem pretty healthy to me, pegs 100 cold, warms up and is almost spec at idle warm. blip throttle and it goes up relatively and is easily meeting bently spec.
but i killed a couple rotary pumps in short order, not on the driveway where most of the work was timing, etc. but on the road in 1st gear. had to pull over right away and swap.
also the brakes have sucked since i replaced parts and bled the system. they work and the pedal isn't going to the floor but they are not like the 85 jetta. which its brakes also suck when the booster goes out. harder to stop, harder pedal. we'll see tomorrow