What turbo do you have again? Boost spikes of 35 are very bad for the small vnts. 25 psi spikes should be the absolute max for a vnt15 or similar.
Is the VNT controller reacting too slow to the changes?
Just cuz it pushes 30 psi easily doesn't mean it should. BV39 is what is on the BRM. It's actually a pretty stout turbo. But tuners generally map for 18 psi sustained with it.
Has overspeeding and ultra low efficiency written all over it...