I understand the ground problem. The thing is, this wiring is all fresh. I have more than enough grounds throughout the car. In fact I ran 4 gauge from the back to the front of the car grounding it at about 4 spots along the way.
The issue is with the solenoid pump, it turns on and off about 4 or 5 times a second and causes massive amount of induction through the solenoids coils every time the pump is in the off state. I don't know exactly how much voltage is being induced, but some sources have said in the realm of ~600volts.
better grounds only help so much, but electromagnetic induction, you just can't fight with better ground.