enough boost is when you have 3 dimple marks in the hood from the valve cover nuts..
IMO, replace the bolts, but ARP is not required unless you're going absolutely nuts. High rpm's put the most stress on rod bolts and it's the same bolt as an ABA that people rev to 8000rpm before going ARP.Diesel rods/pistons are a bit heavier, but I still wouln't worry at all until over 6000rpm
arp bolts were actually cheaper than oem for me, i got them off amazon.com
...BTW your Bieber avatar is awesome.-Malone