I'll have a crack at this, not totally sure though.
1. Should work, although I've never tried it on a generic tach.
2. Filter - yes, but you'll need to install a sender or run a line to the back of the gauge. If it's an electronic sender, it'll probably be a 1/8" male NPT thread, but the bung on your oil filter is M10x1.0. It'll kinda thread in and will even seal with a wrap of teflon tape, but damage stuff along the way. If you buy an M10x1.0 die, you can rethread a 1/8" NPT and that'll work. I'd use an adapter instead of cutting threads on your sender, but either way will work. If it's mechanical (less likely I'm thinking), buy some copper tubing, compression fittings and a cheap flaring kit. You'll need to make a line all the way to the back of the gauge. I wouldn't trust vynil tubing.
3. There will be instructions, I think it's supposed to be pulled off of the battery, but any decent circuit will work.
4. Stock one should work... if not, you might have to plumb one in somewhere
5. This one could be tricky. VW's fuel level senders are 350-50ohm, that runs off of 240-33ohm. Someone else will probably have to chime in with some workaround for this.
6. You probably need to run a VSS ($) or a signal adapter ($$). I don't know if a VSS is a drop in replacement for your transmission, but for my O2A it was. So if your speedo cable is the same as a MK2, that should work.
That should give you an idea, but hopefully someone can correct my mistakes and fill in the blanks for you!