check with SPEC for clutches, they make some great ones to hold up to a lot of power, i am currently running a SPEC stage 2 on my build, and i really like the way it engauges, not to harsh but deffenitly a lot stronger and quicker than a stocker,
I am also wondering about the o2a tranny, what year and model of VW did that tranny come in? I have a stock 5 speed from a MK1 Rabbit diesel that I was planning on using, but if it will not hold up, I will go with an o2a right off the bat, as I once I put the car together I don't plan on having to tear into every weekend.