zukgod1, I JUST replaced the head gasket on the weekend because it was burning like 1 litre of coolant a day and had serious starting problems. The 1.9 mgetal HG has done the trick because i dont lose coolant anymore out the exhaust.
The expansion tank/cap are almost brand new, maybe a month old?
the whole rad is hot after its been runing so i dunno if there are cold spots?
the thermostat isn't even 3 weeks old and i did check it in boiling water, it opens.
I switched those wires like suggested, same thing absolutely nothing changes when i switch them so they may even be backwards now, who knows! as far as i can tell they don't do anything.
The fan will turn on if i leave it sitting for a while.
Theman53, did you say that changing the oil filter fixed your screwed up cooling thing too or just the oil light/buzzer?
I took some pictures with my phone maybe they will make SOME sense?
this is after about 20 minutes of driving today, the gauge reads SOMETHING it got up to temp the other day but this is the closest it's been since then. Shortly after it reads SOME temp the oil light/buzzer sounds for a couple seconds. but this is a bad filter i believe (thanks theman53), got a new mann filter. i hope it does the trick)

here it starts to read something....

but then, look at the clock, a couple minutes later...

Preeettttyy sure i have a faulty temp sensor soooo should i just get a new "T" thing that goes on the head ? or... is there something else going on here. PLEASE don't say wireing again! I hate wireing. That dash pisses me off.