It is not common for the rear mount to break. Check the condition and alignment of all your other mounts. If they are in poor condition or are improperly aligned, it will make life for the other mounts more difficult. It may also be possible that you got a defective or crappy quality mount. Go for OEM german-made mounts (try and find them with the VW part numbers cast into the rubber, as I have found these to be the highest quality.)
Oil or diesel will attack the rubber of any engine mounts and coolant hoses they touch. If you have mounts contaminated with engine oils or diesel, clean the rubber very well and fix the offending engine fluid leak(s), so the rubber parts stay clean and might live long.
Heavy duty techtonics front mounts may be useful for gasser A1 VWs, but in my experience whenever they are installed in an A1 diesel, they make the dashboard vibrate like crazy, and so are very quickly removed.
If you want to keep idling vibrations reasonable, I would recommend brand new OEM mounts.