Those return pipes are very hard to get off with the turbo in place. My advice would be.. go and get 4 new turbine housing > downpipe nuts and washers (M8 i think).
Remove the turbo with the return line attached, solve the problem and then replace the pair togeather. I really dont think you will get the 2 bolts off the turbo's bearing housing. They are 10 mm, and yours could possibly have a 'T30' (torx) drive in the middle like the sump bolts. Theres just no room to swing anything on the one closest the rocker cover. I actually removed the compressor housing once to get that off, would have been easier and quicker to remove the turbo and manifold.
The 90bhp TDi's are so much easier to work on than the AAZ motor with the turbo mounted at the top.
The large banjo bolt on the back off the block is 24mm i think, i've removed 3 this week and always lift a 1", which is a loose fit....so i assume its a 24 head.
Odd this part leaking, its under no pressure and no excessive temperatures either.
Good luck with it. DM