I have an '02 Jetta Wagon with the automatic also because my wife does not like to drive manual. For sure the automatics are weaker than the manuals, but the original trans in my '02 Jetta went 239,000 miles before losing reverse. The used one that I installed has been flawless for the last 7,000 miles so far. Most of the original ones went more than 100,000 miles which is probably above the design criteria and above what's considered 'normal' for many American automatics. I also think a lot depends on how one drives. If you consider the accelerator pedal an ON/OFF switch, then you'll kill an automatic quickly. My wife and I are very easy on vehicles and so it has been a good match.