Ether works fine,if you use it correctly.Many diesel trucks use either systems for starting,even IDI's.
The key is to make sure you use just a little,and let the engine suck it in with fresh air.
Whatever you do,the glow plugs MUST BE DISABLED.
The best way is to spray 2-3 secs near the air intake at the front of the car.Wait a few seconds,then crank.The ether wil get sucked into the airbox,and mixed with the incoming air,and the engine should start.If it doesn't,wait a minute,and try again.
I've started hundreds of cars with ether,and never had a problem.
Most people use too much,and squirt it directly intot the engine,via the intake.This will usually result in detonation,and over revving.