So i picked up a bosch branded 'fast glow plug kit' from a friend. Installed plugs, cleaned everything and put the 50a fuse back
..PO had the contacts jumped to omit the fuse. The kit came withthe following Bosch relay:
Turning ignition on, everything was normal but after car would start the GP light would come back on after a few seconds. My idle was rough and Alt belt squealed a bit so I assume the plugs were actually on. The light was not flashing but I drained the water separator anyway, no change. But I did get a lot of really nasty water.
Switched back the old relay...its a german made aftermarket unit with 171911261a and 24.4100.10 on it, likely a kracker with the K logo in a triangle.
On the kit it says Rabbit UP TO 1981...is the relay just an older version of the circuit.