damn, so i just hooked up my electric pump to the car with the gas cap off just in case.
it seemed like an improvement as far as startup and clearing itself out. the car started on first glowplug cycle, cold start lever out, a few misses with the initial puff of smoke and within 20 seconds it was clear. Also pushed the lever in before warmup and tailpipe was also clear.
I had it sitting idling for a long while to watch for bubbles, etc. The idle would seem to repair itself both sound wise and on the tach but it would happen all of a sudden by itself, you could hear the car run at its best and with the slightly higher idle i set a couple days ago.
problem is in spurts in the same running session i saw the idle lope around a bit and drop to <1000 and with that would come the hint of white smoke out the tailpipe. when its running crappy like that i pull the cold start lever and niether the idle or smoke patterns are helped.
i just shut things off and did not see a hint of bubbles or fuel shift in either way.
i am not seeing a hint of fuel leak in the engine bay or hissing when the car is turned off. when the car is running it sounds like its firing on all 4 and evenly.
my last ditch effort here is to run just the electrical pump into the jug with new in/out lines that i can see and after that i suppose i must give up

Now again I do see fuel under the lda pin when I pull it up, but no hint above or at the vent. So could I run the car with that lda top off and pin out to take a look at that pin and for fresh fuel or will the pin shoot out too far and then I can't get it back in? If its leaking still could that internal leak cause my loping idle issues?
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another edit.
hooked up directly to the bucket again with different lines and my electric pump. no bubbles soon after switching lines over. got it up to temp idling on the driveway for 5 minutes and wanted to take off and didn't take long for the car to start doing the same thing.
i couldn't see any bubbles/pressure on either side after shutdown.
fuel was flowing steady, more with increase in throttle.
started stabbing the throttle and every time it got worse and worse like the idle speed was shifted down. then it would die around 800 rpm, it would restart a little slow with no gas. until i screamed it and let it down and it died.
tried to hot restart for 10 seconds with no pedal and nothing.
tried again with pedal to the floor and it stumbled a tad after 10 seconds and started and wanted to idle at around 800 rpm so still sounded rough.
i ran the pump with the lid off to look at that lda pin and all i would see is after i pushed it in it would slowly move out and stop a tad, i couldn't detect a leak after i sucked up the other stuff.
so i am at a loss here. i would have messed with timing but again resisted the urge due to these other problems stopping me from driving it.
all the external screws are still locked in place. governor arm is indexed, i haven't had a pump act like this before

I think all of these tests show that it isn't a fuel flow problem? Something internal happened to the pump when I took the lid off and messed with those settings, although I still can't find concrete info on if thats possible.
I think at this point I have to take the pump off the car and bust it open but what the heck am I looking for? Do I just make sure its all put together ok and try and run it again? Anything specific that can cause this fuel shift?
Is it possible something really bad is happening and there is something wrong with the engine as it gets up to temp to bog the car down or something?