At part loads and idle loads, a Diesel has EGTs much lower than gas motors do... so less turbo timer duration is required. I find that EGTs on my 1.6lTD after extended idling, will even drop below 200 deg F.
I only very rarely think there would be a need to idle a street-driven VW TD longer than 1 minute before switching off the motor. The worse case scenario would be, you're going WOT up a mountain pass for minutes, engine is smoking hot borderline overheated, and you take a rest stop exit coming to a parking space almost immediately after the freeway. For that kind of scenario, I'd say say use common sense, maybe manual idle the motor a little bit longer before switching on the 1-minute (slow-glow relay) timer.
I have not even rebuilt my old Garrett turbocharger, which came along with the 1.6lTD motor from a junkyard car of unknown history, engine was rebuild but turbo was not... and I have not experienced any turbo related problems whatsoever. I attribute that to the (1 minute) turbo timer being used as needed, and also use of synthetic oil (Mobil Delvac 1, 5W40.), which can take a lot more heat than mineral oil.