Idk, buddy of mine has it and its the same car as me and there is no issues with glare... He just aimed his lights after installing the hid's and it looks fine oncoming.
H4 halogens FTW!i had normal halogen sealed beam lights in my 4Runner before, and they were pretty good and bright. but then i got a set of hella H4 conversion units and stuck some 55w/85w H4 sylvanias in there and relay'd my lights. WAY WAY BRIGHTER! its amazing what just relaying them will do with stock lights.
Okay so this is what I did.. I installed them last night.. And I got a friend to hop in the jetta and drive in the other lane with the lows on, and drive at me normally.. Don't flame me but I didn't find them to be irritating to the eyes. I then did the opposite and got him and my dad in the other vehicle and drove at them.. They said that they didn't bother them but they were obviously brighter than the silverstars that were in there. I'm not saying others won't find them annoying but they said that they are aimed right and bearable. It was at about 11 PM that we tested it. I also had no flashes. I will try and post a pic right in front of the car on lows cause highs are halogen.8v, where in the north are you located. It gets dark at 330 here in winter.