I'd suggest one more test. Hook the negative jumper cable back up from the negative of the battery to the starter body. Then try using the screwdriver to jumper the starter.Regardless, put the battery back up front.Whether it's the power side or the ground side or both, the present routing is not allowing enough current to flow. Why now? Maybe your battery is slightly worse off than before. Maybe your ignition switch is slightly more worn. Maybe you have a little more corrosion in the ground or power paths. Regardless, VW put the battery by the starter and glow plugs for a very good reason. In fact in the diesel vanagons they even moved from its gas vanagon location under the passenger seat to the passenger side of the engine compartment just for that reason.
its been working for the last 6 months all thru winter with no problems, y now?
but it will not crank if i use a screw driver to jumper it, just click 2-3 times
...BTW your Bieber avatar is awesome.-Malone
check the ignition switch - its known to go bad specially in the start position, the factory starting wiring is like thisjuice jug (battery) - starting switch key - starter solenoid terminal 50 - solenoid coil - groundthat terminal 50 sucks juice - about 40 amps of it all wired through long wires and two tiny contacts in the switch - which wears it down after a few million starting cycles - thats why I have put a bosch 70 amp relay in the starting circuit under the bonnet.
You've said repeatedly that it will click 2-3 times with the ignition, exactly the same as when you jumper the two connections on the starter, so unless I'm mistaken, you obviously ARE getting power from the ignition to the starter. It's just not enough to get the starter solenoid to fully engage and get the motor to turn.