Well, I finally got all the way under the dash and used a small pen light attached to my eye glasses. I found a separate relay hidden up above and behind the heater blower. When I pulled it out, it was my missing glow-plug relay. I unplugged it and opened it to find that it was completely full of water. I drained it, dried it, sprayed it with WD40 and then plugged it back into the socket. When I turned the key, the light came on but upon further testing there was no electricity going to the glow-plugs. Suffice to say that the electricity was passing through the water. I called around and found a local parts shop that had one sitting on the shelf. Apparently there are two kinds of relays, fast and slow, mine is the latter. It was so nice out that I took the motorcycle. When I plugged in the new relay, the light came on, went off, I started the motor, and the light stayed off. YEA!!!
Incidentally, I had the alternator checked and it was only putting out 13.4Volts and that was why the battery was dead the next day after the rain got into the fuse block.
So, all told it cost about $150 and everything is now working as it should and there was a bonus, it didn't ruin the glow-plugs so I got off easy!