Update...
took it off the golf and replaced it with the other vnt 15 i had... perfect fit/match, only difference is the actuator, its a non-original replacement item and has the boost/vacum input on the side rather than on top... Car started and running fine, performance also improved with the car pulling hard well into 4k rpm rather than loosing steam above 2800
The damaged one was taken to a turbo shop where it was taken apart by my friend and damage inspected. I have to say the first thing that struck me was how stuck the actuator was! it was as if it was superglued in one position... He kept disassembling it and compressor was fine, center section was fine, center shaft has a bit of play but just a bit, however he said that with a refurb kit it should be ok... Shaft was pulled out and inspected and since he won't be running any hard ammount of boost will stick with the original vnt 15 item rather than replace/upgrade to a 17... unless its a good idea.
The vanes were coated in a layer which the guy described as "more than he usually finds"... they were also very hard to move.
Right now everything is sitting in the heated chemical bath and to-morrow he will re-assemble it and hopefully will be able to start playing on how to fit it to my engine. I have the old 1.6 motor sitting on the floor, will mock fit on it and see what i get before plumbing it on the aaz.