yes, any mk3 exhaust will work. you don't need a muffler, a resonator alone will be fine. 2.5" i believe was the best way to go. You should think about a downpipe as well.http://vwdiesel.net/phpBB/search.php
I have intalled a golf mk3 gti exhust on the back of my motor and it fits well, same size bore etc and fittings.
Where's local? Might be a board member there who can help.